Aakhir Kyun Hota hai Aisa....??

Have you people ever thought that why always women are blamed for whatever happens with her. Be it rapes , sexual harrasments or domestic violence , its always women who are blamed…..WHY ?? Are men not responsible??

     I am not saying that women are always right .....But it is true that a woman is always blamed whether it be her mistake or not. I believe that sometimes its mistake from both sides…..Remember ….”It takes two to make a quarrel”

     Really…Women now need  to take a stand for themselves for their rights and honour. It takes one to start a journey and people will join you. I think ….a woman has to start her journey on her own ……a journey to achieve her own rights. I don’t understand that why people don’t stand for others whether it be a woman or someone else. It feels disgusting when I see that a woman misbehaves with a woman.….how can another woman harm her or abuse her. And then they claim that they can understand each other very well.

     The recent statement by a politician……..“Women finding physical pleasure outside marriage should be hanged”…. Whyyy?? Men doesn’t do that?? They shouldn’t be hanged……Are they free to do anything they want ?? Why there is so much differences for men and women. Are women born only to do household chores??…….i don’t think so. This statement made me think more deeply onto this topic and here is what i feel in my heart.

      Is a woman born only to do Household work.....Why still a woman is considered as that she can work only at home. Though we say that we live in a modern society but still Women are considered as if they are bound to do only household work.Still....a man takes a woman to be weak and thinks that she is not able to do anything. Today also in some parts of our country Girls are killed before they are born......People still think that a Son is more important for their family.....But have they ever thought that how will they get a Son if there is no Daughter.....Has anyone thought on this??

      We live in a Male-Dominated Society.....though its been Male-Dominated from ages i.e During the Age of Lord Ram or Krishna but then Women were respected too. But Now.....Women is not that much respected. Every day we get to hear about a Rape or a sexual haraasment case.......Harassment Cases are also Vice-versa....Even Men are harassed by Women.......Is it justifiable to hear about such cases and then sit quietly.  I think we should not sit quietly but we should stand against it.

      Today, A woman is working as efficiently as a Man does. We are moving forward in every field but then also we are the ones who are stopped. If anything wrong happens with us.....Then also ....its our mistake. 

      Sometimes i feel bad that i live in a society where a Woman is assumed to be part of the "Supreme Goddess" but she's not respected as that. She's not given the honour she deserves.

     If we talk about the recent "Nirbhaya" case.......what happened......6 people raped her and badly injured her......But still they are not given the punishment they deserved. They are still not hanged. One of the culprits was not yet 18 so he was not given the punishment he deserved......is this our justice.....Justice to that brave Girl "Nirbhaya" ?? 

    On that tooo....the statement by so-called GodMan Asaram's statement......"If you would have called them Brothers , they would not have done this." Well, this was expected out of him a she runs a sex racket behind his so-called Ashrams and Schools. In today's time.....its difficult to trust anyone whether its your brother , boyfriend or husband. If a Father can sell his daughter or can get her married to man double her age then what can we expect from even brothers or boyfriends.

     I would also like to say that if such a case happens then also its considered the girl's mistake.....Why.....is it becoz she is wearing short clothes or is a girl only a toy for a man to play with and leave her. If something of this sort happens, Girls are locked inside the house or they are married. Is there no self-respect of a lady as a whole?? Why have we to bear up this much of pains and sorrows....Why?? 

    As i earlier mentioned that still in some places Girls are killed before they are born......Did ever thought that what would the mothers will be feeling when their child is killed inside their womb. Has any of us thought of the World without a Lady......When we are born we are in arms of a mother ....she takes care......we learn to walk holding a mother's strong finger, fight for chocolates and toys with a sister, Love a woman for a lifetime......A Woman plays so many roles in your life and you can't even give her the honour she deserves.

     Sometimes....i think that people forget that they are in this world because of  a Lady. If there is no woman....what will be the state of the World then......when i think on this i shiver at the mere thought. But i think some people never ever think on this.....They keep on mistreating Women for their own satisfaction. 

     A woman is not a toy to play with  that whenever you feel like you can play. A Woman can do anything she wants .....its just that she remains quiet. But trust me.....its not the time to stay quiet. Its time to speak up......Speak up for your own Good.

   After what all happened…..Nirbhaya Case , the Mumbai Rape case…….one thing came into my mind……”Is a girl a source of physical satisfaction and pleasure??” Will any person who looks at us will see with lustful eyes. 

   There’s also indifference over education for girls. Though we have become so modern but still in some parts of our country girls are not educated. Are Girls born only to do household chores, get married and give birth to babies?? Is this our destiny ?? Sometimes these things make me think like this….I go on thinking but I don’t find answers to my questions. 

   Talking about recent case of Smriti Irani where it was said that she’s just 12^th pass , how could she manage a big responsibility such as HRD ministry. What about the people who are well educated but still they do not behave as the same. I agree education really matters but if that education leads you to corruption or makes you do wrong things ….then  what’s the use of that. I believe that a woman is capable to do everything. I believe that a woman, whether she is educated or not still she gives proper manners to her children and makes them a good citizen. It was not at all acceptable to be said something like this about her. Was it right to be said…you people say.

   The crime rates against women are increasing these days but still the government is silent. Still, the culprits of Nirbhaya case are not hanged to death. What is court waiting for……do they want  another case like nirbhaya to happen….According to me those culprits must’ve been hanged to death. And why only hanged …..they should be tortured just as they did with the poor girl. Even  a 5 year old girl is affected by this lust of some people. What was the mistake of that little girl. We are girls…..Is this our mistake??

     Have you ever thought , that a girl simultaneously works for prestige of 2 families…..One , to which she is a Daughter and second, to one which she is a Daughter-in-Law. Is’nt this greater than what boys do?? I don’t understand that why still such social evils are there in our society. We all need to stand up against these. I just want an answer that why all these things happen….What is the reason…..Can someone be happy after doing all such things.  

   These are my thoughts over what i think. I think its now a high time to speak up ....to stand for ourselves. A voice should be raised against this. We have just started.....Many  steps are to be taken......and i hope that this crime rate also decreases with people's alertness and care towards themselves.

      Lastly....Would like to say.....

       “Women Makes The World”

       “Help women Help Humanity”

      “Respect Women  Respect God”

Thank you !!